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Did Ms. Allen have her head in the sand when her child was in MS? When I was in MS, when cell phones still came with a small carrying case, we still all knew who was kissing who. If she thinks her child wasn't exposed to the idea of their friends being in different degrees of intimate relationships then it seems to me she must not have established an environment conducive to open communication.

Speaking of willful ignorance, Ms. Bence is under the impression that there has been a "boom in homosexuality". As a history buff I might suggest she spend some time in other sections of the library. Several English monarchs were likely gay or bisexual. Edward II (the effeminate Prince depicted in the movie Braveheart which is otherwise horribly inaccruate) and James I (VI of Scotland) being among the most well known. In a speech to the Privy Council, James said of his lover (George Villiers, Duke of Buckingham): "You may be sure that I love the Earl of Buckingham more than anyone else, and more than you who are here assembled. I wish to speak in my own behalf, and not to have it thought to be a defect, for Jesus Christ did the same, and therefore I cannot be blamed. Christ had his John, and I have my George."

This hardly scratches the surface of homosexual and queer figures throughout history: Alexander the Great (hard to label b/c ancient Greek sexuality was much more fluid but it seems clear he had male lovers); Leonardo da Vinci; Jane AddamsAlan Turing, John Maynard Keynes, Elton John...

The list goes on and on but this is just off the top of my head. Couple of sources below just to show I'm not trying to gaslight folks as Ms. Bence does.

The real point is that there has not been a "boom in homosexuality as Ms. Bence seems to lament. The reality is that homosexuals and other queer people have always existed, the increased numbers she perceives is instead a function of more feeling comfortable being "out" about their sexuality because society as a whole has become more accepting. Ms. Bence and others like her want to force people back into the closet so they blame books to scare people when the real problem is that they are afraid of something they can't understand or refuse to accept because it conflicts with their personal dogma.

https://www.guidelondon.org.uk/blog/british-monarchy/british-monarchs-who-may-have-been-gay/

https://spartacus-educational.com/TUDjames6.htm#:~:text=(3)%20King%20James%20I%2C,me%20more%20than%20other%20men.

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