Opinion: VFW Post 12190 Seeks New Home
By Scott Killebrew
Recently, Post 12190 reached a historic milestone by electing its first female commander—a testament to the evolving nature of our veteran community and a proud moment for our Post. This election was not just about leadership; it was a statement of principle, a declaration that the VFW stands for all veterans, regardless of gender, race, or background. It was a moment that reflected the values we have fought for: equality, integrity, and unwavering support for our brothers and sisters in arms.
However, shortly after this election, we were informed that our lease would not be renewed, forcing us to find a new home by August 1. The timing and circumstances of this decision are deeply troubling. The building owner repeatedly expressed opposition to the candidacy of a female veteran for Commander, stating outright that he would only renew the lease if an alternate (male) candidate were elected. This was a blatant attempt to interfere with our democratic process and to impose discrimination upon an organization dedicated to serving all veterans.
Faced with this threat, the members of Post 12190 had a choice: surrender to pressure and compromise our principles, or stand firm and do what was right—regardless of the cost. We chose to stand firm.
Our membership overwhelmingly rejected the notion that gender should determine leadership, and with full knowledge that our decision could cost us our Post home, we moved forward with electing the best leader for the job. This was not just an election—it was a defining moment for our Post. It proved that Post 12190 is not a place where bigotry, misogyny, or discrimination will be tolerated. We stood together, knowing the consequences, and we chose to uphold the VFW’s core values of loyalty, integrity, and service to all veterans.
Women have served in every conflict in American history, leading troops, saving lives, and making sacrifices no different from their male counterparts. To suggest that a woman cannot lead a VFW Post is an insult to every female service member who has ever worn the uniform. This kind of discrimination has no place in our organization, in our community, or in the nation we fought to defend.
While losing our lease is a significant challenge, we refuse to see it as a setback. Instead, it is proof that Post 12190 is a Post of integrity, of courage, and of unwavering dedication to what is right. We will find a new home—not just because we need one, but because our work is too important to stop. We are not just fighting for a building—we are fighting for every veteran who has ever faced discrimination, for every service member who has ever been told they were “less than,” and for the future of the VFW as an inclusive, welcoming, and honorable organization.